My son left home at seventeen to go away to college. He's now approaching thirty-five and is an amazing brand new stay-at-home dad. These visits to North Carolina to visit my grandson, have been a great way to reconnect with a son, who has been so independent, for so long. He's so comfortable in his "own territory", as he and beautiful wife try to make their way. Only time, without any real work for me, would allow this to happen.